In my last blog on Goal Setting I talked about The SMART Model, and how that model can help you write specific and important goals.
Now that you have established a list of goals that are clear, specific, measurable, etc (S.M.A.R.T), we are going to offer some KEY ingredients to actually achieving them.
Although there are lots and lots of things that are helpful – things like Passion, Confidence, Excellence, Collaboration (and many more), we have narrowed it down to FOUR critical aspects and distinctions. They are:
We will address each of these. Once you learn to master this model for achievement, you can use it to set and achieve goal after goal after goal.
“If you don’t have a plan, you are probably planning to fail.”
Imagine that you are going to build a house or take an extended trip.
What is the first thing you need? A PLAN!
You wouldn’t just go to the airport and say “take me somewhere.”
Why do you need a plan? Because it is your MAP and although you may take some slight changes along the way, the plan guides you in your endeavor. It keeps you on course.
Here is a technique for planning that comes from years of observing executives in the workplace. It was observed that some executives seemed to be much better at achieving goals than others.
We noticed that one key ingredient was that they excelled at planning.
In addition, they followed a format of starting with the “BIG picture” (purpose, vision) and connected to each of the following stages as the plan became more and more specific. This model is called an “Achievement Funnel”.
You will start with a VISION, connect a GOAL to that VISION, then connect STRATEGIES of how to achieve the GOAL, then connect ACTIVITIES to each STRATEGY and finally connect RESULTS (milestones and measurements to each activity.)
Let’s make this clearer by showing you a visual depiction and then providing a great example:
Be sure to list any doubts and concerns you must plan for. Address each of these with a strategy. For example:
CONCERNS – I like to eat junk food and sleep in.
STRATEGY – Do my plan with a friend to help motivate me.
We often get lost in activities or overwhelmed with the amount of things to do.
Distraction can lead to failure. Imagine you are preparing to ask someone to go on a date to see a movie. Instead of focusing on your goal to get a date, you get distracted by thinking about other issues like:
“What movie should I suggest?”
“What clothes should I wear?”
“What if they say no, will I lose face?”
“Will others find out?”
And on, and on, and on…
Sometimes we coach people to use visual aid to help stay focused on the GOAL and daily activities. Write your goal/activities and post the paper where you can see it everyday.
Here’s an assignment to remind you about the importance of being focused on your GOAL:
A simple but sometimes difficult distinction – RESPONSIBILITY.
Frankly, we could spend days trying to understand this concept but we want to keep it as simple as possible, so we have reduced it to two key definitions.
“If it is to BE, it is up to ME”
2. Don’t be a victim – things rarely go according to your initial plan. If circumstances like time cause breakdown, try harder. You can do it. Believe in yourself. Control what you can.
Think of a time that you set a goal and things didn’t go according to plan – BUT you didn’t give up and ultimately succeeded. It feels pretty powerful! YOU ARE!
In other words, it’s called PERSISTENCE- anyone can give up. Don’t allow yourself to be like those who quit.
STAY COMMITTED to your GOALS- EVERYDAY!
When there are breakdowns – rise up and BREAKTHROUGH!